A Glossary of Enneagram Terms

Any time you try something new, you have to learn the lingo. The games of cricket and curling, for instance, have many specific terms (such as wickets and stones, respectively) that you need to know in order to understand and appreciate what’s going on. And poetry? Don’t get me started.

If you’re new to the Enneagram, it’s a similar situation. So, for those who are new here, or just a bit rusty, here’s a glossary of common terms you are likely to hear in Enneagram circles.

Essence: also called the true self or authentic self. It’s who you are under all the personality stuff.

Personality: Also called the ego structure by some, it’s the set of patterns that your brain forms early on in your life and that you think is you but really isn’t (see above). This set of patterns is based on the Enneagram personality type that you inherently have; you don’t get to pick.

Wing: The personality type on either side of yours. So, if you’re a Four, you can have a Three wing or a Five wing. It’s rare to have both operating with equal influence, and it’s alleged that some folks don’t have a wing influencing them at all.

Integration point: The Enneagram personality type that you move toward when you are feeling safe and stable. Again, you don’t get to pick; the lines that make up the Enneagram symbol show which two types you are connected to.

Disintegration point: The Enneagram personality type that you move toward when you are feeling insecure and unstable – when things aren’t going your way. This isn’t a choice; it’s what naturally happens when your type’s usual coping skills don’t work in a situation.

Awareness: Beginning to notice how you show up in the world. Recognizing your personality patterns. Riso & Hudson call it “Catching yourself in the act.” You’re not trying to change anything; you’re just noticing. This leads to presence.

Presence: This is what we’re working toward. It’s actually inhabiting the moment you’re living in. You are not stuck in the past or dreaming of the future. You are not reacting to life based on your personality’s patterns. When you are present, you are most authentically alive.

I practice being present every day, and I hope it’s at least intriguing if not appealing to you. I hope all these terms either pique your interest or remind you of why doing the daily work of transformation is so crucial.

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